Monday, July 27, 2009

INDOMITABLE


In my life first time I watched all episodes of a TV show. This is not Heroes or Prison Break or any Korean TV series. This is horrible and adventurous Man vs Wild with Bear Gryll. I don't know, what is your mentality, you like it or not, but I have become its fan. In this convivial world such things are really surprising. It may be little bit cozenage but still interesting. If you are watching first time then it may looks disgusting to you but after all you will be fan of it.

Really when first time I saw it I also did omitting. How one could eat camel dung, how one could sleep inside dead camel, how one could eat a scorpion to save his life, how one could eat most dangerous snake wiper. But yes that's the survival technique in wast desert Sahara which is larger than US in area. After that I watched every episode of this serial. Thanks to Internet speed of summer approximate 1.8 MB per second downloading.

Actually why I got so much addicted to this show? I am a person of adventurous nature. I believe in biological theory of trait transfer. I always try to get strong attitude to face difficulties of life. According to me nothing is impossible to man. I can do every thing not only me but every one can do any thing , only process may be different. Bear Gryll supported my attitude through this show. This show is based on famous quote "Dar Ke Age Jeet Hai".

Second important thing which attract me is visual experience of real geographical demography. I could not able to visualise reality of Savannah grassland, but through man vs wild I deeply entered inside it. Not only Savannah , I experienced tough challenges of many extream locations of earth like Patagonia desert in South America, Kimberly desert Australia, most dangerous forest of US, Jayre, Amazon , South Dakota, and Glaciers of Patagonia, Iceland, and Siberia. During study of geography many times I read about Siberia that it is coldest place on earth with minimum temperature of -50 degree Celsius. Who can expect about survivability there but surprisingly peoples exist there with there specific survival technique.

The most important thing is that I got is some strong cases of life. You can use these cases in solving different problems. If some one is asking you that you lost in some place then how can you survive there. You can get best answer through this show. It shows that nothing is wrong in specific situations.

However Bear Gryll is a special person who has made many records in adventure but according to him every one can do all those task with right technique and cool and calm mind. So never lose your hopes at any moment. Man can do any thing. Today I saw last episode, in this way this thrill of 10 dayds ended. Really unforgettable for me.

Thank You

Debate




It can be difficult for people to get their point across without hurting one another in the process. Here are some tips for effectively resolving a problem by stating your views, while being collected and reasonable. Also included are tips on winning an argument.




Stay calm & Keep a steady low tone. The energy you give off is usually picked up on by the other person; if you are calm they sense you mean no harm and relax more. Even if you get emotional, try to keep your dignity and don’t lash out unexpectedly. Also consider your tone of voice; try to keep a steady, low tone and volume, not fluctuating to much in speed and sound. Try to sound as relaxed as possible and avoid high-pitched sounds. Also consider your body language: have a good firm posture that makes your feel powerful but not agressive.

Don’t insult the other person. Avoid to, in any way, say something that might be taken as an insult. When people are angry they are much more sensitive and will take even the smallest comment as an insult.

Express that you are willing to listen to the other person and respect them. Even though you might not agree with what the other person is saying you need to remember that they might feel just as strongly about their views as you do about yours.

Be reasonable. The outcome of the argument might not be exactly what you wanted, but never expect to get everything you want.

Don’t let it last too long, the argument degrades if it’s held out.

Allow each person to speak and make their point.

Set healthy boundaries. If the person with whom you are arguing is angry, obnoxious or verbally abusive, should you really be interacting with them? It may be better to walk away.

If the argument is with a clerk, salesperson, etc. ask to speak with their supervisor. If a supervisor isn’t immediately available, get a phone number.



Winning an Argument -


Think about the possible arguments for and against your side, and the opposite side. If there is any major weakness in your argument, you must fill it before coming to a confrontation with the opposition, or risk losing the argument.

Identify any major pitfalls your opponent can step into. A gentle nudge here and there to get them to make some sort of fallacious statement that allows you to close the bear trap is psychologically damaging and can win an argument on the spot. Also try to take each argument to its logical conclusion.

Always take full advantage of any illogicality or fallacy in your opponent’s argument. Return any illogical points with as many relevant logical facts as possible, to completely quash their point. If this is not possible, take their point and use it in your favor logically.

It’s always possible to lose an argument, especially if your argument has major weaknesses. Accept it if thats the case. However, arguments do sometimes come to standoffs, where no side is stronger than the other and nobody wins or loses. when this happens, learn to leave the argument as nothing can be gained by continuing to confront your opponent. When this happens, don’t lose control or get desperate.