10 lessons

Have you ever asked yourself the question “How did it get so late so soon?”, while you got caught up in everyday hustle and bustle you completely forgot to live. Take time to realize what you want and need. Take time to take risks. Take time to love, laugh, cry, learn, and forgive. Life is shorter than it often seems.

Here are ten things you need to know, before it’s too late:

This moment is your life:
Your life is not what happens between of your birth and death, it’s what happens between now and your next breath. The present – the right here and now – is all the life you ever get. Live each moment in full, in kindness and peace, without fear and regret. Do what
makes you happy and do the best you can with what you have in this moment; because that is all you can ever expect of anyone, including yourself.

The sacrifices you make today will pay dividends in the future:
When it comes to grinding in those hours and working hard to achieve a dream which could be anything from earning a degree to building a business, or any other personal achievement, you need to dig deep and ask yourself: “Am I willing to live a few years of my life like many people won’t, so I can spend the rest of my life like many people can’t?”

You are your most important relationship:
Happiness is when you feel good about yourself without feeling the need for anyone else’s approval. You must first full understand yourself and know how health your relationship with yourself is before you can have a healthy relationship with others. You have to feel worthwhile and acceptable in your own eyes, so that you’ll be able to look confidently into someone else’s and connect with them.

When you procrastinate, you become a slave to yesterday:
Being Proactive today can take such a massive load off your back tomorrow. So do something right now that your future self will thank you for. By doing that, tomorrow you’ll be happy you started today.

Failures are only lessons:
Good things come to those who are patient and still hope, even though they’ve been let down and disappointed, to those who still believe even though they’ve failed at something, to those who still love even though they’ve been hurt before. So never regret anything that has happened in the past; it cannot be changed, undone or forgotten. Take it all as lessons learned and move on with grace.

A person’s actions speak the truth:
You’re going to come across people in your life who will always talk the talk; but in the end, it’s always their actions you should judge them by. So pay attention to what people do, and be someone who lives by everything he says. Their actions will tell you everything you need to know.

Behind every beautiful life, there has been some kind of pain:
You fall, you rise, you make mistakes, you live, you learn, these are the classic lessons of life. Nobody is perfect, but everyone is
human. You’ve been hurt, but you’re alive. Think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, and to chase the things you love. We must keep putting one foot in front of the other even when we hurt, for we will never know what is waiting for us just around the Corner.

A lifetime isn’t very long:
This is your life, and you’ve got to fight for it. Fight for what you believe in, live for what you believe in. Fight for what’s important to you. Fight for the people you love, and never forget to tell them how much they mean to you. Realize that right now you’re lucky because you still have a chance, every breath you take is another chance to change how you lived the last. So stop for a moment and think. Whatever you still need to do, start doing it today. There are only so many tomorrows.

Small acts of kindness can make the world a better place:
Smile at people who look like they are having a rough day, be kind to them, let them know that there is reason to be happy. Kindness is the only investment that never fails, and wherever there is a human being, there’s an opportunity for kindness. Learn to give, even if it’s just a smile, not because you have too much, but because you understand there are so many others who feel like they have nothing at all.

Time and experience heals pain:
No one can say that a huge loss or pain caused is not and important Life event, but a different perspective might be to understand that an overwhelmingly painful event in your life right now will one day be part of your much larger past and not nearly as significant as it seems. Because overcoming it might just open doors for you to experience things that you never have.

Changing Love

Finally! one more mile stone, you clarified the things, I am pretty happy with your behavior. You know, you told me that u do not want to raise any hope but for me without hopes the world will stop. So i am hopeful for me and will be hopeful.

At your end the things are pretty clear that u priorities ur valuesfirst and then make any decision while at my end the values evolve at every moment, and at every moment i think on my decisions .

For me too their are some clarified values, and the most important is that always value the love, everything will be after that. Be hopeful for everything in the life, and there is no word like defeat exist for me.

If I tell you about current situation then things are quite complicated and really I have to travel too long before something comes on the way. Currently I am feeling too depressed and am not able in sleeping well and concentration is far away. Why i am in this condition, i don't know. If this is love which always be painful then why people fall in love. I don't know about tomorrow but really i am optimistic for some short of wellness. I have affirm belief that i am going to wait for you throughout my life bcz i value my love and i believe on change. However I don't know how i had fallen in your love but if i love you then my commitment is for you. And this is going to be my life long decision.

Rest your decisions are yours and you know better about what is best for you to live a satisfactory life with full of impact.

You know that the best thing which I like in you is your attitude that you have liberty and making your all decisions for you. You are honest and fair mind lady. I know that you are capable in aggregating happiness for you in life.

If i am telling that i am not sad by your clarification then i am not honest. I am sad, too sad and have been in love and that is why I am depressed. I know that racing heart and unbearable pain are truth of love, and this is normal. I did not wanted to listen your clarification bcz i had been always fearful of that. That is why i did not talk to you when I was most depressed; bcz science tells that any emotional sock could cause depression. And I was in fear and was afraid of you.

This is the part of love, now lets me come to the reality, i don't know how much involuntary love is, even my value system tells me that love is the most valuable thing in the word, but still i believe that love is not complete involuntary process. Why I impressed with you, why i started respecting you or why i had fallen in ur love. I felt that we are complementary to each other and complementing each other's strength, and that why u appeared best support system for me, and in this way i decided to work with you, and hence i decided to join your team but eventually I found that you decided to stay in my location so I changed my plan to join the team. Everything was looking normal to me but i surprisingly i fell in ur love. After that the real pain begun, even I tried to recover as i found the emotional shift but everything went in to the vein. Now u started running in my brain and heart started racing which has been causing a continuous pain in me. Sometime heart pain becomes so intolerable that i needed to send you messages to support my emotions and eventually as i could not talked to u, I could not share my feelings verbally so messages were the only way. Eventually i started feeling depressed bcz i was failing in everything. But with time i did rigorous reflection, 10 hours a day only on my emotions. I found that it was too late for me to exit.

Rest as today I discussed with u, so i am completely agree with the things at ur end but still I am sad that things could have been optimized. If there is nothing at your end then its true but the reason is that i do not want to be in relation within organisation is not looking satisfactory for me. If this is your value then there must be some background or evidence to make it rational choice. I mean, you are feeling some harm while going against this value, knowing this would have been more satisfactory for me. But I respect ur decision, and respect u too. My values too were same as ur but i could not control this despite so much experience in emotional diversity.

So, really something is changing, but love is not. I am again going to be rigid on emotional front bcz i can not tolerate. Simply i am feeling that love is not my cup of tea. Still i am sad but really it happens with everyone, everywhere and every time.

Why i am so emotionally weak? I dont know the reason but this article could help u explore the crux behind all this.

Changing Love

One reflective man wrote some amazing words, 

The last month has been really different for me. I suffered a tough emotional life. Lot of pain. But bad part of it was that I tried to transfer a part of it to you. As once I told you that love is involuntary process and it happens, but the things in my hand are my responses. But, I failed in that despite I tried my best. 

I know that it is normal that few things marks a great impact on us, last 75 days have marked a great impact on my emotions. The most embarrassing thing was that I never tried to empathize with you and sent  messages to you despite no responses. I should not need to do that. I needed to apply more efforts on myself to control my emotions. Now at emotional level I am feeling much better so I am trying to realize the mistakes done by me. Really, it was too bad that i was focusing on me, and never tried to know the things running at the other hand.

 I am assuming that things have been tough for you, I never tried to care for your emotions. Really, according to me the things had been frustrating and irritating and this was crime at my side.

I promise you that in future I am not going to disturb you. Really, I can assume your side and can assume that decisions for you have been really tough. So, plz don't consider any such things that I was expecting some decision from your side, I love you and I will love you, but my love for you will be just limited up to my emotions and commitment for you. I am not expecting any thing from you.

Rest, with me everything is fine. I am recovering myself, and trying to plan something to build myself. I have learnt lot of things in this case, and really I am not going to fall in any one sided love as heart pain has been unbearable for me, Rest i have learnt the difficulties of decisions and making choices.